Is your man worth keeping?

Are you in relationship with someone?

Have you been together for a while now?

Well, today I would like to talk to the ladies.

To all of those ladies out there who have doubts about their partners.

Warning – do not apply any of these tips if you have just started dating. We all know How crazy we are when we fall in love and the milkshake of hormones that course through our bodies and make us blind to any faults.

These tips are for couples who have been together for a long time and the rose tinted spectacles have lost a bit of their luster

This test will assure you where your relationship is going

So before we go any further I will talk a bit more about my idea. There are many men in this world. Some are suitable for relationships and some of them are not.

That is a simple fact as we all looking for something and not always finding it.

These tips will either open your eyes and let you see for yourself what kind of relationship that you are in at the moment.

Answer Honestly the 10 questions below and check your score at the bottom of the page.

Does he knows How to make you smile?

Smille is according the psychologist the most important factor in relationship. Not great wild sex or money is not enough to keep a relationship strong. Is he funny? Joking? The positive attitude makes life  easier for everyone.

Does he likes your body?

Does your man like you without your make up and sexy clothes? Does he loves your body just as it is? Does he think that you are fat or in need of some plastic surgery?

Your body is your temple so it is always your decision to make changes on it, if your man does not like what he sees that is not your fault he should be looking at the person on the inside.

Are your life plans pretty much equal?

Well do you talk about your future plans together?

 Do you agree on them or fight each otherabout it?

 I am pretty sure if the man does not catch your point he is unwilling to listen.

You do not always need to be right, even we smart girls make mistakes, but the man should be social enough to understand you. Does he want the same in life as you do?

Can you rely on him?

Is he always on time for dates?

When you ask him to do something, is he able to achieve that?

Do you need to remind him constantly to get to get the tickets, or to book the table for your meal? Can you rely on your man with the little things and if you cant,  How could you rely on him with bigger ones?

Do you like the weak side of your man?

Does your man leave clothes lying all around the house?

 Does he behave like a child? Is he messy =? Well when you are in love you get over it with a smile, but when it becomes a dailly basic? Would you still like it? You do not need to be his au-pair you know!

Are you on the same intelectual level

I know it looks scary enough but let me explain. What I mean is. Are you able to talk to each other fluently without any problems? Are you able to cover all the discussion without emarrasing-I don’t know. It is a major think in relationship to be able to communicate well together. The way you deal with and talk about problems is very important in every  relationship.

Does he stand by you?

Well, not everyday is a happy day. Not  everyday is full of joy and sunshine. There are days you would rather stay at home. When the problems come does you man stand by you? Is he giving you all of the support you need? Well, we all know that thanks to love we are able to do anything. Having a supportive is a key for happy relationship

Is he a partner to you?

Whe you are shouting a each other, is your man rude to you? Does he use a vulgar language or try to put you down? In a partnership is very important dealing all problems in the most suitable way. When you stop respecting each other, then nothing can help you.

A good partner will also tell you about his past and all he went trough in his younger days. He should tell you all without doubt as It proves How much he trusts and loves you.

What about sex?

No, it is not in the wrong order. The sex is not the first thing which leads to a happy relationship.  Ladies, you can have the best great looking man in the world, but after a whille the sex becomes a routine.

So, Is your partner able to talk to you about your feelings, sexual desires? Do you listen to your lady How she wants to be done this time? Do you know what she likes in bed? When was to last time you gave your lady a great interlude in sex?

Ladies, do not let your man to get lazy in sex. Try with him new things of love. Be intimate with your partner. Just get all wild and sexy!

Does you familly like your partner?

Personally, please do not ever hope your mother or father will like him. No matter How old you are, you will always be their little girl. Most likely they will accept him, but will also look for all the things he cannot do.

If you really want to know, what people think about your partner, use your friends. Friends are here to help as, friends are the ones we trust, we like, we share things. If your man is dull, your friends will tell you that no matter what.

8 x yes out of 10 question – Means, you partner is a miracle. You better hold him close and stick to him. There are not a lot men like that. He is understanding you well. He is romantic and a sex machine in bed. He likes to talk to you and he will be the best partner to you.

5 x yes out of 10 question – Well, that is the man we meetingevery day.  He would do anything for you untill he finds  he has you for sure. Then you will see more of his mistakes, some things becomes problems even if they were not before. He gets lazy and all the romantic issue to you will be a well pretended orgasm to make him happy. Altough this man is suitable to live with, it will be just much harder then walking out on a dog.

less then 5 yes out of 10 question – This man will be most probably a man without ability to cope with relationship. All he cares about is himself. When he wants  your company he will call you. You cannot rely or trust such a man. Girls, not worth keeping.

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