I am not a sex object i am a woman
69I am not a sex object i am a woman
Today, I was walking down the street and there were two boys sitting on a bench and talking and I am pretty sure that I was mentioned in their conversation.
As I am very sneaky person I found a seat near to them and sat down to eat my lunch listening in to their conversation as I ate.
After a few minutes I discovered that my suspicions were spot on they were talking about me and the hole that they would fill if they ever had the chance to.
At first I found this to be funny but the more I thought about it the more i realised that I am a woman not a piece of meat to be chewed up and spat out.
The guys were actually quite good looking and I would have probably agreed to date either of them if they had been respectful rather than have the mentality of a rabbied rabbit.
As I work in office as an interpretor I have to be well dressed most of the time my work involves me to be in present in a courtroom as an interpretor. Well, I really have to besmartly dressed and presentable for my employers and it is a part of my contract with them that I am.
That means I have to wear a jacket a blouse and a skirt well presented and my hair and face have to be perfect too.
I am not going to say that I am a good looking woman but I am not the worst looking woman, i do take great pride in my appearence and in my job but because of how I look and what I wear does not mean that I am out to jump on every guy that I see walking down the street.
I respect myself too much as a person to even think like that.
Everywhere you go there are guys who think that women are nothing but a notch in their bedposts they have no respect for the female of the species and they „hump em and dump em“ as if it were a competition to see how many girls they can sleep with in a week.
I am not a piece of meat I am a human being with feelings, I laugh, I cry.I think, I feel and i live.
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Disrespect
These type of guys do not deserve a second of our time, they have no respect for themselves let alone for the women in their lives, and any respectful woman will stay well away from them.
Who we are?
No matter what is said and done at the end of the day it is our choice as women how we react to such insolent oafs, we can pander to them and be disrespectful to our own bodies or we can tell them to go away and learn some respect, There are some good men out there it is just that they are a little more difficult to find, men who respect woman and treat her as his equal real men because they would never treat their woman like a sexobject or a piece of meat.
The Male of our species is a funny beast. When you smile at them, they think that they have scored.
Take care ladies respect yourself and your body and the bulls will have to learn some respect before they get anymore breeding rights.
Ladies, do you feel like a sex object at work?
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I totally agree with you. What I am trying to say is, I can have desire for someone, but it does not mean to do it in disrespectfull way. That is all. Even a close friend of mine thinks I am a mad girl fighting against a man! It is funny, I do not fight, I like boys but all I do is just to avoid loosers. That is all. Thank you Peter for visiting, you are always welcome!
I agree with you too as well LizzBoo.However, we can't expect a man to respect us, if we don't have respect for ourselves, and this shows in the way we carry ourselves i.e. way we dress and way we talk, body language is important.It is hard sometimes for a man to tell what a woman is saying with her smile.It is not the smile, but the way she smiles that he sees as a turn on. It all comes down to body language. If a woman smiles and waves at a man, the wave can be the difference between saying hello back, or a bit more. Like Peter said , most men can control what they think and feel, but it is the one's that can't control whether or not to act on those feelings that have the problem. If men respected woman more, there would be less woman being raped or assaulted. Women don't asked to be raped, but if they don't dress appropriately, then we really can't blame men for thinking that they are after a good time. It doesn't mean that this includes being assaulted. When a woman goes out dressed like a "sex object" then she can't expect the same respect that a woman dressed up in a more respectable attire would get. A man can desire a woman, but it does not mean that he wants to jump into bed with her. He may just want to have dinner. Sometimes it is hard for us to judge from a first meeting what is on a man's mind, but if it is more than just the dinner, you can be sure that you will find out soon enough. I went through similar episodes like this some of them did turn out to be rather nice, however, some of them that I thought would be great, were the ones that I should have said no to in the beginning. My mother use to say, "be wary of the quiet ones," there is truth in this I found, very much so. BB
Your story really tells us nothing about you and everything about them. I know as a man I never liked the locker room talk about other people. I also no to be quiet about my views in front of other men when the crap on like that. If you object to men talking in this way it really upsets them. This is because they feel so insecure about there masculinity. Of course they probably would not admit this to themselves or others but it is the truth.
There are better ways to go about expressing your appreciation of the opposite sex with other men. Please don't feel disturbed about little boys and their bad manners, its their fathers fault for not showing them a better example.
So if I see a girl walking down the street wearing a short skirt I she deserves it if I give her verbal abuse.She wears a short skirt and a tight top that must mean that she wants me oh especially because she smiled at me.
I smile at people all of the time and I wear shorts and sometimes a tight Tshirt would a woman accost me for what I am wearing? mutual respect is what we should aim for after all men and women live on the same planet and we should all be allowed to dress as we please without prejudice.....jimmy
Amen jimmythejock!
comes down to Respect.
LzzyBoo-this is a very good Hub! Living in NY especially in the summer can be quite intimidating at times....like when you walk past construction workers and they start saying . whatever it is they say. . usually I have my music playing through my headset. . and I can either look at them and smile or I can just look ahead and keep walking! Whatever it is no matter what we wear or who we smile at . .we all deserve the right to wear what we want without others saying stupid things . . like she deserved what she got!
Smile and the world will smile back at you. . keep up the good work my Boo
You might all think that I am a naive person. I still believe we are living in a world where people are people and animals are animals.
Therefore I believe that man has the same rights as woman. If woman can control her feelings why not man?
We were born with a freedom in our heads to be able to do things we love to, we should not be punished for such things.
My hub was not about bodylanguage or flirting. This hub is about understanding that a woman is not just a beautifull cover,
just good to get into bed. Woman is also human just as a man is. I am proud to be a woman and no man has the right to disrespect me in any way!
That is not just right. If there are women who wish to be a man's bed room toy, well-go for it. I am not that kind and will not let man talk about me the way
I heard on my lunch brake. Hope that is clear for now.
Jimmy and Shari-thankyou very much for your comments!!!
You GO GIRL !!!!!
Hi LizzyBoo,
I do apologise if I have got the wrong handle on this. I was only trying to point out that men tend to go by a woman's body language. I do think your hub is very good about what you are saying and I should have said this first. I was just trying to make a point and should have addressed yours as well. I am not well and sometimes my brain doesn't get the right message and I feel that this has probably happened when I replied to your hub and I may have blacked out,which does happen on occasions. So please accept my apology for this oversight and stick to your beliefs, you are so right in what you say and what you are doing. Hope this will fix this now Take care BB
Dear Beauty, NO and NO! Please be sure You have nothing to apologise to me. I know I have not written the hub clearly. Sometimes as I still work on my vocabulary my words are not good enough. Lizzy
Your vocabulary and everything was perfectly fine in this hub. I quite enjoyed reading it. All I could think of saying was "you go, girl!" Good Hub!
You are very kind my dear friend. I own you email, I shall do it asap!
You are both a woman and a sex object and I respect you for both.
Respect or not, all humans are sexual objects. It is the reason we exist. Without humans being sexual objects or conquests in life...human life would not exist.
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Peter Dickinson Level 2 Commenter 2 years ago
Sorry LizzyBoo but much of a mans reaction to a beautiful woman is programmed into him before birth. We can't help it. Most of us can control what we think and feel and even more have respect and admiration for you. We really can't live without you. Nice Hub. Thanks.